I Think She Meant To Get Pregnant
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I love my girlfriend. We've been together for 2 1/2 years. I know that she wants to get married, but I want to finish college first. Yesterday, she told me that she is pregnant. I don't doubt that the baby is mine, but I have a bad feeling this wasn't an accident. I love her and I love our baby, but I don't know if I can trust her. If I'm wrong, I'm suffering for no reason and she doesn't even know there is a problem. There is no way to broach the subject without insulting her. What do I do?
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Saturday 20th of February 2010 12:05:12 AM
Either you will have this question in the back of your mind for the rest of your life or you do talk to your girlfriend about it. You say that you love your girlfriend and unborn baby, my advice would be to discuss the way you feel with your girlfriend. It might upset her at first but it will probably be better for your long term relationship with eachother and with your unborn baby
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Wednesday 17th of February 2010 10:34:14 PM
No matter how it happened it happened and you can't take it back. Pregnant woman's emotions run high so be careful how you approach her. If your relationship is strong you should be able to talk to her about anything. If she did do it behind your back then you really need to know so you can address the issue. Good Luck!
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Sunday 21st of February 2010 06:58:19 AM
If you love your girlfriend does not let one event that separates them. Everything that happens in life has a purpose and most of them have the hand of the Divine God who protects and guides often without knowing it and give us account. You can continue to study and love their girls. I will not always be easy, but believe that later will feel happiness because no precipitate and let you take the more rational logic. Think carefully before making a decision because you may regret in the future.
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Sunday 21st of February 2010 03:37:25 PM
Did you use any protection?Did she take some pills?If she did all those , ask her how it was possible to remained pregnant? Did her forget to take them, or she did but still happened?
Yo need to clarify this issue, and I am sure you would feel if she is lying or not.
Maybe it was an honest mistake, no harmful situation from her.
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Thursday 4th of March 2010 03:54:27 AM
It may be, it maybe not. No one knows except her. But i like to ask you, do you love her or not? Do you believe that the baby is yours or not? These are all your questions which I am throwing it back to you. Whatever the answer is, that's the answer to your question. Remember trust can be redeem, you just have to work it out.
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Thursday 18th of February 2010 07:33:55 AM
This is always a hard one. If you love her and love the baby, then perhaps it is best to leave it - you need to ask yourself what you will get out of asking her. Are you asking because if the answer is that it was deliberate, does that mean you will leave her because of lack of trust? Quite often, women who deliberately get themselves pregnant do so for two reasons - they either desperately want a baby, or they are scared of losing you. A baby in this instance would cause you to have some form of committment to her. If it is the former, then put it behind you. If it is the latter (and you will need to ask to know) you need to re-assure your girlfriend that you love her and would never leave her.
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