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I Don't Feel Sexy At All.
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I'm 27 weeks pregnant and I feel like I'm as big as a bus. My husband is still feeling amorous, but I just can't get into it because I feel so self-conscious. How do I tell him that it has nothing to do with him, but I'm just not feeling very sexy right now?
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Monday 22nd of February 2010 07:00:42 PM
There is nothing to feel self conscious about, and if your husband didn't fancy you, he wouldn't want to be intimate with you! Think sexy and you will be - if you feel very conscious, get a new hairdo, a new lipstick or perfume and get some new lingerie. www.hotmilklingerie.co.nz stock gorgeous pieces specifically designed for pregnant mums and they are seriously sexy. If all else fails, talk to your husband, but do not ignore him as he will feel as if he is being shut-out.
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Monday 1st of March 2010 05:16:10 PM
I think the way you just said it is just about right. Tell your husband that you really don't feel sexy, because you feel "as big as a bus." Then, when your husband tells you that he loves the way you look, and loves your growing tummy, BELIEVE HIM!!! When your husband looks at you, he probably feels like he has affirmation of his manhood (whether or not he would put it in so many words!!) Also, many men actually like curves, especially pregnant curves of their wife! Let yourself enjoy sex, and if you don't think you're "into it," do it anyway! Sex during pregnancy can be the best you've ever had!!
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Tuesday 2nd of March 2010 04:56:53 AM
What you feel is just normal for a pregnant women. Most pregnant women feel like they are the ugliest person. It is the feeling of insecurity. Don't fell insecure of your looks. You tell your husband what you are feeling, if your husband really love you he will understand your situation. Just tell it in a very nice way, he will love you more.
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Tuesday 2nd of March 2010 05:31:49 AM
Pregnancy is the phenomenological most beautiful and wonderful that God gave women. It is true that most of the time we transform our bodies while we're pregnant, but in most cases, after the baby, back to normal. Do not feel uncomfortable or not so sexy. The pregnant women are the hottest in the world there, so all of them after a certain age want to have kids. Enjoy the best of your pregnancy and tell your husband that you feel more peopl espeicial this world.
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