I Feel Like My Best Friend And I Are Growing Apart.
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I've had the same best friend since freshman year of high school. We've always done everything together. Now that I am a mom and she's not, it seems like we don't have anything in common anymore. I'm in a different place in my life now. She's still enjoying the freedom of childless coupledom and I'm focused on my daughter. How do we find some middle ground so we don't lose our special relationship?
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Monday 15th of February 2010 02:22:46 AM
I know how you feel. I was in the same situation. Perhaps try to find some time where you two can be alone (without your daughter) just for some girl-time. I am sure that it will benefit you as well to have some time without the responsibility of a little one. If your friendship is strong it will survive, and one day your friend will have a baby of her own, and you two will be on the same page again.
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Wednesday 24th of March 2010 05:31:35 AM
hi there dear, you can do that in the way of make her see that you still have time and things that you guys can do together even after you have your baby, you can invite her to go with you around when you go to do shoppings, you can set meetings at home and parks where you guys can be together as well, she can make part still of your reality even after you become a mom, the thing is you need to show that she is not excluded of your life after you have a daughter... hope it will help.
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Tuesday 29th of June 2010 04:14:19 AM
Well this is depend on you as you know better about this because you both remember all the good memories of past and experiences you did together. Main is your stream are you both working .If yes then good can talk on those matters select the things the way you do earlier together. If she likes kids can talk about her.
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