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I had an intimate encounter with my best friends wife. She is pregnant & wants to continue her pregnancy. She is madly in love with me. Wanan get away with pregnacy atleast. Any suggestions?
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Sunday 14th of February 2010 07:56:20 AM
Run?! I guess that is not going to be an option. There are two options: 1) be open and honest with your friend and his wife and work very hard to make your friendship work or 2) be very clear to your friends wife that this was not supposed to have happened and that you do not want to be involved in her life or that of the baby in any way. It will be hard and people will get hurt, but you will have to find a way that will make it work for you.
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Sunday 14th of February 2010 01:43:11 AM
The question here is, are you the Dad of the kid? Did you ask your best friends wife if it's yours? The damage has been done and at the 1st place you should thought a thousand times before you have an illicit affair. If you're not in love with the woman then be blunt and tell her that you regret the day that you had sex with her and you have no plans of ruining your friendship with her husband. This way your best friend's wife will be able to conclude that she has no future on continuing with the pregnancy and she will just lose everything she has if she tells the truth to his husband. Hope this helps.
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Sunday 14th of February 2010 08:25:35 AM
By saying you wanna get away with the pregnancy at least - do you mean you would want to continue with this daliance without any commitment? Well if you are not in love with her and do not want the baby it is best to tell her so and if she does not want to terminate it she will have to face the consequences. You say the guy is your best friend - some friend you are! Now do the next decent thing and give her the support she needs and help her to save her marriage. Talk to her about it.
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Sunday 14th of February 2010 06:17:45 AM
Does she plan to move with you and the baby? If no, then do you see your child growing as some one else's child? Continue with the baby only if she is shifting bag and baggage with you, or else dont even think about it. The minute your friend comes to know about it he will make life hell for you, his wife and the poor unborn child.
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Saturday 13th of February 2010 08:03:47 PM
The hurtful and devastating lies and betrayal going on in this "love triangle" need to end ASAP. You and your "best friends" wife have backed yourselves into a corner, so it seems, but the one who is going to be the most (and hopefully not totally) destroyed over this is your friend and her husband. He is getting hit with a double-whammy in the betrayal department and, rather than make matters worse in the long run, it is necessary that he be told the truth ASAP. It is bad enough that he will have to undergo the pain and grieving process in regards to the double-betrayal, but--have some compassion--give him the opportunity to make the decision as to whether or not he wants to become attached to a child regardless of who the father is.
Stop thinking about yourself and give your best friend a break.
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Sunday 14th of February 2010 04:19:29 PM
Great!itis hard to cheat someone but the best friend wife? common!
i guess you need to be very straight to each other and even your partners,Keeping a baby is something important things for baby but for adults involved in , too.
I would not advice you to do it, but it is you who decide!
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Monday 1st of March 2010 04:05:46 AM
IN THE FIRST PLACE, YOU ARE NOT THE BEST OF FRIEND TO YOUR BEST FRIEND. YOU DON'T DO THIS TO A FRIEND. AND YOU SAY SHE IS "MADLY IN LOVE" WITH YOU, WHAT ABOUT YOU OR IT'S JUST YOUR EGO I'M HEARING? A ONE WAY STREET WHICH YOU ENTERED ILLEGALLY IN THE EYES OF GOD. WHAT DOES YOUR CONSCIENCE SAYS? ABORTION YOU SAY? THAT'S THE SECOND SIN YOU ARE ABOUT TO COMMIT. I DON'T WANT TO BE SO RELIGIOUS TO YOU, BUT THINGS ARE ALL WRONG AND THE ONLY THING I WOULD LIKE TO SAY IS: TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE!
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