Afraid I Won't Know How To Care For My Baby.
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I'm due in 7 weeks and I'm starting to worry about what kind of mother I will be. I was an only child to a stay at home mom and a dad that thought I could rope the moon. I don't have a lot of experience with babies or children. My husband and I both have to work to make ends meet, so I can't stay home with my little one. I want her so badly and I love her already, but what if don't have what it takes to be a good mom?
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Sunday 7th of February 2010 04:03:44 PM
Nobody does from the beginning but everything comes naturaly, easily and perfectly.
it takes for about 4-5day to get used to it.then you will feel it you are a mother for all your life.
I felt the same even the second time I delivered.but things to me so easily and in a smooth way.
so, don't stress youreself with this kind of thoughts.you are perfect!
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ymaaz Sunday 7th of February 2010 01:32:57 PM
Its really good that you care and you want to be a good mom.Try your best .Not every one has prior experience of raising the kids,they just learn when they have their own kids.No need to worry!
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Sunday 28th of March 2010 02:09:13 PM
You will learn as you go and from your doctor and the nurses at the hospital As for being a good mother just give the baby lots of love and make a lot of quality time together.(love, play, sing and enjoy life together).
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Friday 14th of May 2010 05:54:58 PM
since you and your husband do not have time to stay at home, i will advice you look for house help (house girl) to take care of the bay so that you can make ends meet.
On the other hand you the wife can consult your mother or the husband molter to come to stay with you in order to help you with the baby, because you cannot stop work and be taking care of the baby and do not want to be called a bad mother.
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Wednesday 17th of March 2010 07:54:15 AM
hello there Mom, and awww dear don't jump out of conclusions based in p[ossibilities, all mommies as I know have passed for the same as you, i personally paniced when i went to give birth, everyone were happy and smilling waiting and I was crying and completly desperate thinking that i was not able and i had not the necessary things to fit a good mommy to my daughter, i work as well and now these days most of all momys need to work specialy to provide a great family life, and they still been amazing mommies even if they can not be all the whole day by their kid sides, so i THINK you will be a great mom for sure, and it is already showing up how great you are coz you concern already of how good you should be to your lil one.
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