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I work in a consulting firm. My boss & me were on a short business trip a few days back. We hand an intimate encounter. I am pregnant. Wanna tell him about this pregnancy. Scared. What shall i do?
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Monday 1st of March 2010 03:53:15 AM
WERE YOU SCARED WHEN YOU HAD THIS "INTIMATE ENCOUNTER"? OF COURSE NOT, INSTEAD YOU WERE HAPPY I PRESUME. OR YOU WERE JUST IN A SITUATION WHERE IT JUST CAME. WHATEVER REASONS YOU MAY HAVE, WHY WOULD YOU BE SCARED? WHERE YOU THE AGGRESSOR? IS HE MARRIED? IF THAT IS THE CASE THEN YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF INSTEAD. ANYWAY, ITS THERE ALREADY. TELL HIM OR SUFFER THE CONSEQUENCE. ARE YOU WILLING TO RAISE THE CHILD BY YOURSELF? I WOULDN'T SUGGEST ABORTION IF THAT'S WHAT YOU'RE THINKING.
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Sunday 14th of February 2010 04:16:32 PM
I am sure you can talk with him without being afraid of him.I guess if you are intimate you can discuss things that afects him too.
Are both of you free to have realtions?I am guessing , not, right?
This could be a little hard to be together and keep and raise the baby together.but dfinitely it is up to you if you keep the baby.
definitely need to tell him about the pregnancy!
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Monday 15th of February 2010 12:13:16 AM
I would advise you to tell him of the pregnancy as soon as possible.
This is due to two reasons:
1. The baby is his responsibility as much as yours.
2. What ever you want to do, you need to consult him as well since he is the father..
Dont be scared. Face it and tell him the truth. In the long run truth is better and helps you to have a peace of mind!
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Sunday 14th of February 2010 11:52:12 PM
Well, since you work together, he is going to find out that you are pregnant at some time or another. Its not something that is very easy to hide for long. Honesty is always the best policy. No matter what his reaction is, your situation remains as it is, and you must cope with it in the best way you can. At least if you do discuss it with him you will know where he stands in the situation, and you can move forward. If you are unsure if he is the father, a paternity test can always be done.
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Saturday 13th of February 2010 07:49:08 PM
You and your boss are both consenting adults who agreed upon having a "fling" unprotected, and are, therefore, both responsible for the fact that your encounter resulted in your pregnancy. It is not o.k. for you to carry the burden of this knowledge alone and to live in fear of what you think may or may not happen as a result of you getting honest about a very serious and momentous event that has happened in your life. And guess what?!!
YOU ARE PREGNANT! I am so tired of society in general making it a "bad thing" when a woman gets pregnant out of wedlock and not under what the status quo deem "desirable circumstances." Your pregnancy should be viewed upon as a good thing; and, by no means, as an accident or secret that you have to be scared to disclose to the world!! Share the good news with your boss!! However, do not have any expectations of him taking the news in any particular way whatsoever and you will not be disappointed.
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Sunday 14th of February 2010 05:00:42 AM
Are either of you in another relationship? As this pregnancy could severly impact many peoples lives. Anyway I would surely tell him. Two people having fun, should also be responsible enough to take care of the consequences. Depending on his response you can then start to think what to do next.
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Sunday 14th of February 2010 06:13:43 AM
First see if it would help by telling him about your pregnancy. If it was a one time encounter, he is obviously not looking for a long term commitment, then why do you wanna spoil your job and future by telling him about it. The main point is do you want to keep the baby. If yes, then will he support you? If you think no then leave him out of it and go ahead with your pregnancy. But if you think you cannot have the baby then just get it aborted QUIETLY, and your life carries on like before, but avoid such encounters in future. They can be messy.
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Sunday 14th of February 2010 08:21:33 AM
If you were not taking precautions you should have told him and ensured that one of you did. There is no need to be scared after all he was party to it too. Tell him and decide on what you want to do before you are too far gone in the prgnancy. Do you want to have the baby, are you in love with your boss - if the answer is no to both these questions then you can terminate the pregnancy instead of going any further.
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Sunday 14th of February 2010 04:36:07 AM
Before you tell him ask yourself first of what you want to do now knowing that you are pregnant. Set your mind first and be as organized as possible before you hit your boss with a news that you don't know whether it will make him happy, sad or mad.One false move and it can make everything fall apart for you specially that the one who got you pregnant was your boss.
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