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Can't Seem To Connect With My Baby.
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I'm 25 weeks pregnant and know that I'm having a little girl. I've always wanted a little girl. My problem is that I had a miscarriage a year and a half ago and I'm afraid that something is going to go wrong again. I lost that baby at 11 weeks, so I know that I should be getting past this fear, but I just can't. I feel like I'm carrying A baby, not MY baby. Will I continue to have trouble connecting with my daughter when she is born?
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Tuesday 16th of March 2010 06:30:11 AM
hi there dear, and I hope you will start to feel the connection as soon as possible, may your psyche since your miscarriage is fuction with a defensive point, our psyche is completly full of surprises specialy after a traumatic experience, so may thats why you can not feel the connection coz your brain may see a pregnancy like a fragile thing that can be interrupted any time, so your brain is blocking some emotions right now like be free to leave your emotions and your maternity feelings grow, I think you will be able to feel connected with your daughter as soon as you hold her and see that she is not a possibility that she is there and nothing can take her away from you, I really wish you all the best. Cheers.
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Monday 5th of April 2010 07:50:35 PM
Think it this way, as you know there are other women who want to be pregnant but they are no blessed to have one. If you are pregnant you must be so lucky to carry a blessing from God. Read positive books to enlightened yourself. You may talk to positive people around your place too. Always be cheerful and be merry.
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Thursday 13th of May 2010 01:35:12 PM
You dont has to have any problem with the baby when she is born. how do you know that, that baby is not yours? and whose stomach is it in? and more to the point, can you remove that baby and put yours in?
so any baby you are likely to give birth to, just make sure that, that baby is yours.
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