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Pregnant After Miscarriage, Can't Seem To Connect With This Baby
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I'm 25 weeks pregnant and know I'm having a girl. I've always wanted a little girl. My problem is, that a year and a half ago, I had a miscarriage. Now I'm so afraid that something is going to go wrong, I can't seem to get psyched about this pregnancy. I lost my first baby at week 11, so I know that I should be getting past my fear. I just can't. I feel like I'm carrying A baby not MY baby. Will I still be unable to connect with my daughter when she is born?
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Tuesday 16th of March 2010 06:25:55 AM
hello there dear, sorry to hear about the miscarriage that you suffered. I think it have been really though to you what happened with the first pregnancy, and probably it is why you are not getting so involved about that second pregnancy as long as you fear to may pass all again, sometimes our psyche start act in a defensive form like always attent and ready to something else so it may block some of your emotions to be free to appear as it was suppose to be. I think maybe you get connected with your lil girl before even she born, you still having some weeks to go and it has plenty of time and many things can happen during this time, may as near to the birth day you get to reach more relaxed and may you can feel the connection them. I hope all will be great for you and your baby. Cheers.
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Monday 5th of April 2010 07:49:59 PM
You must see a doctor in that case. Once you have visited your ob gyne, you may ask this question and she can give you advise on what to do. Otherwise, you seek help too to some experience woman along your place or to your mother. Read positive books to enlightened you
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Thursday 6th of May 2010 10:32:21 AM
Sweetie, just give it time. Let yourself mourn for your first baby, and talk to your ob; I don't know if there is such a thing as prepardum depression; If you are really concerned you might want to consider going to a counselor. Have you decided on a name yet? And start talking to her, read to her; she is real. I know you are terrified that you wil be heartbroken again, but you are past the first trimester-chances are she is safe. You aren't betraying your first baby; but if you don't open your heart, you are betraying your new baby girl, and I know you don't want that to happen. Hold on and open your heart....i wish you peace
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