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I'm Afraid Of My Girlfriend Getting Pregnant.
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My girlfriend really wants to have sex, but I'm afraid of her getting pregnant. We're seniors in high school and a few of our friends are sexually active. I want to be with her, too, but I can't afford to start a family now. I know about condoms and birth control pills, but they aren't fail-proof. How can I communicate to her that its not that I don't love her, its that getting pregnant would change all of our plans?
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Wednesday 3rd of March 2010 07:45:02 AM
Being as honest as possible is the best way. Talk to her about it, about the fact that he loves her, but you are too young to contract responsibilities of a baby. Talk to her about the various forms of contraception (pill, condom, etc.) and choose responsibly what you want to use. These methods are guaranteed 99.9% against pregnancy and are at risk of 0.01% than 100% of risk for pregnancy. Good luck.
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Sunday 7th of March 2010 06:07:32 AM
Always assure her of your love. Just let her know about how you feel about having sex. You are right that refusing to have sex doesn't mean you love your partner any lesser, it is even otherwise. You do not want to have sex with her because you love her. Let her know that you do not want the both of you to suffer the irreversible consequences of early pregnancy. And it doesn't mean that if everyone is doing it, you must do it as well. Deciding in such a way for your relationship is really very responsible of you. And your grilfriend must be understanding and appreciative enough for your respect and love for her. It is rare for a man to resist the temptation of having sex. But you really love her enough to avoid doing it with her because you do not want to ruin her life just because of a one night affair.
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Friday 12th of March 2010 04:30:41 AM
I see no reason for you not make sex with your girlfriend, provided that both know and make use of method of contraception, you can make use of 2 methods at the same time to raise security levels and thus not at risk of have an undesired result, condoms and pills are the methods that generally all doctors recommend to use both together, hope now you stop to worry about it, and lets enjoy with your girlfriend.
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