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My Girl Friend is Pregnant. She wants to continue her pregnancy. I am too scared. She is 17 & me 20. Dont even have a job. What shall i do?
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Saturday 13th of February 2010 05:44:46 PM
No one can be sure whats the best for you. Yes you are still young to have a family. I would advise you to think over what is that you want want from life. If you are done with school and can find a job than you could try, but if you think that you could do something with you life than dont keep the child there is enough time for having a family you two are still young.
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Sunday 14th of February 2010 04:47:11 AM
This is something you two will have to discuss very carefully, and may be it is best if you do involve both your parents or a person close to you that you feel can help you in this period.
Having a baby is a challenge at any age Being young doesnt automatically mean it would be more difficult. If you are both comfortable with having the baby you will find a way to make it work. Support from family and friends will be a fgreat help not only during the pregnancy but also once the baby arrives.
And yes, you will have to try that bit harder to find a job as having and raising a baby will cost money.
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Sunday 14th of February 2010 05:08:27 AM
Being pregnant and having a baby is the easiest part. The difficult part is what do you do with the baby once it is born. Before you take a final call answer a few questions yourself. 1. Can you give this baby a life you wished your child had? 2. Even if one of you has a job, will the income be enough to sustain the three of you? 3. Will you be happy? I believe more than having a baby, the rearing of the baby is important. Bring a life in this world only if you can give it the life it deserves. Just to keep yourself happy would you like to bring a child who would curse you the rest of his life for giving it a horrible life and a tag of a "bastard". THINK AGAIN....
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Sunday 14th of February 2010 08:02:19 AM
Depends how far gone she is inher pregnancy. If it is too far gone then you cannot think of terminating it, but if it is still in the early stages then you should both sit down and talk about it. Will your parents be prepared to help you both until you get a job or will they not. if both sets of parents do not want to help then you will have to think about this practically, or go and get a job for yourself. After all you did get her pregnant now you have to be responsible and stand by her.
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Sunday 14th of February 2010 04:12:07 PM
the best thing is to talk to each other and to decide togetherI guess you need to tell to your folks, they need to know and I am sure they could help you out!
If you love each other and understand eah other you should keep the pregnancy and also keep the baby.Family is the greatest thing on this world, even if you make this family so early.
young parents is a good thing!
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Sunday 14th of February 2010 08:10:01 AM
You should discuss this to your girlfriend. If she is strong-willed and she really is decided to give birth to your baby, you should think not only of your situation but hers as well. It is also best to tell your parents or guardians about your situation so they can help you. If both of you are still in school, you should start to learn to juggle school, work, and taking care of your baby. If both of you are really not ready yet for this, you might want to consider adoption.
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Monday 1st of March 2010 03:11:12 AM
BEING A PARENT IS RESPONSIBILITY. YOU SHOULD HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT THIS. ANYWAY, YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS SMART. ITS A DECISION THAT SHE WON'T REGRET LATER ON. IT ABOUT TIME TO TELL YOUR PARENTS NOW AND YOU START LOOKING FOR A JOB AND BE RESPONSIBLE.BE A MAN AS YOU WILL BE A FATHER SOON.
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