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I have conceived with great difficulties after 2 years of patience. Worried if is it safe to have sex during pregnancy? Dont want my husband to suffer.
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Tuesday 16th of February 2010 10:52:54 AM
Yes, it's very ok to have sex while being pregnant but you gotta choose the right positions that is convenient for you. You shouldn't worry about your husband coz he's more worried about you and the baby. When I pregnant, my partner and I have to communicate which positions to do it. Communication is very important to both of you. There are books who can show you about the best positions when pregnant. My favorite was spooning because it helps me with my breathing because I have lie in my side, it's convenient for me and good for the baby's blood circulation.

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Monday 1st of March 2010 11:51:22 PM
SEX DURING PREGNANCY IS OKAY HOWEVER IN YOUR CASE IT IS BEST TO CONSULT YOUR DOCTOR OR MIDWIFE FIRST. SINCE YOU FEEL A LOT OF DISCOMFORT, OFTENTIMES YOU'LL FEEL TIRED, NAUSEA OR VOMITING. AND MOST OFTEN THAN NOT YOU DON'T FEEL LIKE HAVING SEX WITH YOUR HUSBAND BUT OF COURSE WE DON'T WANT HIM TO FEEL OTHERWISE.THERE ARE SEVERAL SEXUAL POSITIONS THAT YOU COULD TRY WHICH WILL NOT CAUSE ANYTHING HARMFUL FOR THE BABY NOR DISCOMFORT FOR YOU LIKE YOU BEING ON TOP OR ON THE SIDE. UNDERSTANDING AND ACCEPTING SUCH SITUATION IS LOVE FOR ONE ANOTHER. GO TO YOUR DOCTOR ALONG WITH YOUR HUSBAND AND IT WILL JUST BE FINE. BY THE WAY CONGRATULATIONS!

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Sunday 14th of February 2010 04:18:27 AM
Don't worry dear for it is safe, unless your OB-GYN advised you not to or that it will be dangerous for the baby then that is the time that you shouldn't. As for me I had my fair share of sweet sex life up to my 8th month and until a week before I had my delivery. Actually my doctor told me that it's okay because in a way it will also exercise your vagial opening which will make giving a normal delivery easier.

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Sunday 14th of February 2010 05:01:49 PM
I am sure doctor will tell you if something is wrong and hat thing affect your sex life.As I know until 8 months old is ok to have intercourse, after that period it can make you go into labor. sooner it does not affect in other way then to produce miscarriage. don't worry it will not happened!

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Sunday 14th of February 2010 08:46:38 AM
Well your doctor should advise you on this as he knows what you conditon is and whether you can have sex without endangering your pregnancy. If it is not safe then you can keep your husband happy in many other ways and ensure that he is satisfied too. If the doctor permits gentle sex ask him which positon is safe and go ahead. Make sure that your husband also understand the consequences.

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Sunday 14th of February 2010 08:52:32 AM
Also for me it was not easy to get pregnant and once it finally happened my husband and I were very worried if this would have a possible effect on the pregnancy. And altough the gyna confirmed several times that there would absolutely be no negative effect on the baby, it took us quite some weeks before we were comfortable having sex during the pregnancy. I guess my advice is to 'go with the flow' and do what you both feel comfortable with.

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