Pregnancy Depression
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My husband and I planned this pregnancy long before it happened. Now that I am in my third trimester, I am finding that I am depressed and worried that I made a mistake. I am so embarrassed that I haven't even told my husband. I feel like there is something wrong with me. Is my reluctance normal?
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Thursday 18th of February 2010 01:09:09 PM
Yes, this is totally normal. It's just like when the groom gets cold feet before the wedding. Having a baby is a lifelong responsibility that shouldn't be taken lightly. It is normal for any one to have second thoughts about a major decision. It's kind of like buyers remorse but don't worry, all of these feelings will go away once you have the baby.
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Friday 19th of February 2010 05:24:37 AM
Yes it is - many women feel excited at first, and then they feel depressed afterwards. This is usually because they feel scared and overwhlemed at the prospect that their life is about to change for good. Some women suffer badly after the birth. The most important thing is to address whatever concerns you have with your midwife - your husband may not understand, particularly if its something you both wanted. Take each day as it comes - once your baby is in your arms, you will hopefully feel differently. If this gets worse after baby, contact your Dr who will advise you on post-natal depression.
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Wednesday 24th of February 2010 04:19:32 PM
Is this your first pregnancy?
Those are newbie symptoms.you are afraid what you will do, that you could wait for a little for being more prepared for this moment.trust me on this, you will never be more prepared then you are now.you are and will be prepared when the thing happened.
God gave us the strength of being mothers and also teach and guide us how to take care of those thiny lives in our hands.
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Monday 15th of February 2010 04:34:50 AM
It's ok. The dream of having a fantasy ideal family is fading away and the real deal is hitting you in the face. Having a baby is a beautiful and the happiest thing that can happen to a married couple. You are probably just worried because the total change in your life is about to happen. It is perfectly normal but don't worry. Once you see that bundle of joy, everything else will melt away.
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Saturday 6th of March 2010 04:31:35 AM
Yes and it always happen to anyone. You should discuss this with your husband. Because what you need is encouragement and support, love and care. And you can all get this only from your husband. There is nobody in this world who would understand but your husband. And it is not embarrassing at all.
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Tuesday 23rd of February 2010 04:13:12 AM
What you are experiencing is actually very common in many pregnant women as well as new moms. The high levels of pregnancy hormaones, coupled with concerns and worries about the future and doubts about your ability as a mother can often result in clinical depression. Many women start experiencing low mood in late pregnany and if not dealt with can manifest itself as postpartum depression after the baby is born. I would advise that you speak openly to your husband with a focus on how you feel and also to consult with your ob/gyn.
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